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NICHOLAS PETTAS BLOG: Worth fighting for!

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Worth fighting for!

I have a bunch of good guys that I am able to train with for now quite some time, we are all a kind of family and we stick together. I am not the just the Boss in the gym, I am also a father figure to whom they can always come and talk to. I like being there for them and they like having me there for them too. We often sit down after training and talk about things because it is important to discuss both how our training is going and other things like life and what ever. One of the boys is having some serious problems with his girl friend, and having no where to turn to he has come to me for advice. I have been helping him through this period in his life right now, although I don't know if we will make it to the other side without getting hurt. At least I am there for him, and it feels good to actually help someone that trusts you. In life there is always something worth fighting for, and right now he needs to fight for his girl if he wants to stay together and that is sometimes not as easy as it seems. But he is a good kid and I hope things work out for the better.

人生に山がれば谷もあります、よく聞く話ですけど。本当にがっけから落ちた時にその谷から青い空が見えなくなった時はだれが助けてくれるの?手を伸ばしてもいいけど上から引き上げる手がいなければその山に登るのに目隠しをしたままで登らないといけない時はある。これは実に言うと本当に辛いことです、ジムにいる選手、後輩、いや兄弟みたいな感覚でいつもいろんな話の相談受けます。その中の相談は最近ある子のガールフレンドに振られていて練習に力が入らないぐらい落ち込んでいるのにどうすればいいですか?と僕と真剣に話をしています。若いから冷静にみていると本当にかわいく見えるけど本人にとっては本当につらいです。結果はどうなるか分からないけど本当に好きだったらもう少し頑張って諦めないでその子にゆっくりと自分の気持ちを話すべきです。とりあえずその機会を作って本人から気持ちを聞くぐらいのチャンスを作るように話しています。その時は本当に自分の気持ちはどこまで伝えられるかにかっかていると思います。そして、できればカップルで来週のイベントに来て、何とハワイのペアー旅行券をもらって永遠に幸せですよ!:)